Favs

Just some videos i've marked in my fav list. A definite must watch! :D

Travellers

Wishes.

• She wishes to be that girl who doesn't care what others think of her, cos deep down she knows she should only care about what her Creator thinks.
  
  
• She wishes to be that girl who doesn't follow today's forever-changing trends, cos she knows Islam is simple and beautiful.
  
  
• She wishes to be that someone who doesn't get worried about her future as she has placed her full trust in Him.
  
  
• She wishes to be the daughter who pushes her parents to Jannah with her as well.
  
  
• She wishes to be the sister that could take care of her siblings whenever they need her.
  
  
•  She wishes to be the girl who ignores all the heartaches she gets cos she knows the only one who takes care of her heart is Him.
  
  
• She wishes to be the girl that always has in mind that this world is only temporary, and is only a stepping stone to the eternal abode.
  
  
• She wishes to be the girl who is always patient and remembers to be patient when a calamity strikes.
  
  
• She wishes to be someone who could let go.

InsyaaAllah.

Boys. Guys. Men.

Lol strange topic haha but this thing's been bothering me..... awhile. Just cos of a message. Haaaah. And this serves as a reminder to me ofc plus i just need to write this down.

"I thought those feelings for you faded away but the moment i saw you, my heart skipped a beat, and the whole world stopped. That's when i realised those feelings were never gone, it was just sealed in this heart, silently."

Okay its a super cliche statement and no i did not experience this recently and don't even want to. Just felt it was somehow inappropriate idk. Cos seriously all these lovey dovey feelings you have for any guy (or guys) who are not even related to you seriously are from syaitan like seriously they're poke poke poking at you heart lol i can't stress this even more. You might think its 'something' but actually its not. One thing leads to another, so eventually having these thoughts and feelings would probably tempt you to like text the guy or something or even meet up with him. And ofcourse thats a no-no ): k asal i letak sad face hahaaah.
So what should you do? Yeap ignore these feelings straightaway... Just push it aside... Think its nothing, because it is. And because the only person you're allowed to have these feelings for is ofcourse, your halal hubby-wubby :D (k euw sounds weird).

Also, a wise senior (by 1 year only heheh) of mine once said: "If your heart is already filled with your love for Allah and Rasul (saw), how can you even have feelings or put a place for these non-mahram guys in your heart?"
Haha yeap got me thinking :'D

So like, yah.... Just... don't. Hahah. And again this is all just a reminder to me okaaaay
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Complaining.

Yes, you probably can call me 'The Complainer' or nickname me that cos apparently i have a special 'skill' of complaining. Well who doesn't, right? Its part of human nature i guess...

 What had gotten me thinking about complaining? During USS (ustazah sakinah saptu) 's class last week, there was a hadith that got me reflecting le self...

Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: The Prophet said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you." Sahih Bukhari, Volume 1, Book 2, Number 28 

Okay i know the hadith stated above is specifically talking about not being grateful and complaining about your husbands and all.. But complaining in general is bad, right? Well i guess complaining can be categorized into two parts; complaining to the Almighty himself, and complaining to humans. Obviously the first one is of higher preference, as said in the Quran:

"I only complain of my distraction and anguish to Allah." (Yusuf 12:86).

As letting your heart out to Him can bring benefits and insyaa Allah no harm, it is better to just keep quiet and make dua. Complaining and letting out your problems to other people won't really do you any good as they don't actually understand the situation you're in. Confiding in psychologists or doctors is of course another matter. People would perhaps look at you differently or judge you afterwards. Therefore i guess it is better to keep your problems (especially family problems) to yourself and just confide in Allah. But thats a bit hard for us Singaporeans, i guess? Cos haha i think complaining is in our blood :I


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Since we're in this topic, let's talk about social media.... Twitter and facebook specifically. Cause when the weather's hot, when your mum didn't cook anything and you're hungry, or the bus is arriving late... what do we always do? YES. Tweet about it. And the timeline or newsfeed will be filled with complaints and the timeline will be like a mini 'feedback' form you get what i mean? I guess the only answer to this is restraining yourself to tweeting/posting these kind of things especially if you have a lot of followers/friends equaling to more people seeing your 'feedbacks'. Better still, don't have social media accounts at all. Hey, you're not really losing anything. Wanting to stay in contact with online friends isnt really an excuse. Humans created mobile phones for a reason, right?




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